Are You Happy?

Oct 16, 2023 | Enjoy Life, Forgiveness, Love Yourself, The Work

You might think you can’t be happy until you get the job you want. Or until your kids graduate and leave the house. Or until your spouse (and, let’s be honest, everyone in your life) goes to therapy. 

But leaving the job, fleeing the country, or waiting for everyone else to change isn’t going to make you happy (even if they do change). Because it’s no one else’s job to make you happy. 

Happiness is an inside job. It’s a choice. And, it’s your personal responsibility.

I stayed in a crappy relationship for 4 years after me and my then-husband knew it was done. During that time, I took personal responsibility for my happiness (no matter how angry and grumpy he was at the time). 

I wasn’t a victim—even when he made fun of my cooking or acted passive-aggressively. 

Staying with him gave me the opportunity to take my power back. Doing my work changed my life forever, in the best way possible. 

Today’s challenge:

Can you take your power back from someone or something you use in your life to feel bad? Giving your happiness away to the weather, a person, place or situation is reckless. In awareness you can always make a new choice.

Rita ❤️

P.S. If you’re struggling to lean into Love and Truth for yourself, join our community The Essentials. Inside, you’ll find a safe space to unpack your feelings, face them head-on so you can finally heal, and embrace a life you fricken love. It will help you make the choice to be happy no matter what’s going on around you and change your life in the best way possible. How happy do you want to be a year from now? Come see what’s possible inside our amazing community today.

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Rita is an Intuitive Counselor who works with bright sensitive people who are sick of struggling in their relationships and want to make the pain go away. Though her in-person and online intimate healing retreats and one-on-one sessions, she has helped thousands of people quiet the noise, move forward, and make peace with their past and their present, so that they can heal, be happier, and live a life they love.

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