I Was Lying … To Myself!

Feb 19, 2024 | Enjoy Life, Forgiveness, Love Yourself, The Work

As annoying as it is, I lied to myself for years. 🙄

But I found out the hard way that I can’t be happy if I don’t live with truth.

Especially my own.

I often lied to myself, telling my ex-husband I was OK with what he was doing, and then I’d be butt hurt and punish him for my feelings of being abandoned and rejected.

I actually thought that to be a good partner, he should read my mind and that I shouldn’t need to tell him what I was feeling or what I wanted and needed.

I believed he should KNOW!

Hell, I didn’t even know how I felt, or why I was feeling the way I did, let alone what I wanted or needed. How in the heck was he supposed to know?

It was all a set up for pain and struggle.

We can’t have loving relationships with others when we’re living disconnected from ourselves.

And it sure as shit blows up when we don’t even know that we don’t even know. 🙄

Self-knowledge is self-love.

If you’re not good at your relationships, I guarantee there’s some healing and learning coming up for you.

And you don’t have to do that shit alone!

Rita ❤️

P.S. Need help? The Essentials is your go-to resource for when shit is hitting the fan and you don’t know where else to turn. It’s absolutely filled with resources, meditations, Energy Transmissions, talks, and more that will help you hit reset and calm your elevated nervous system. 

Get your cute butt in the door so you can join us for our Open Inner Circle session this Thursday, February 22nd from 11am – 12pm central. We’ll be going deep into whatever’s coming up for you to heal so you can let it go and FINALLY experience the freedom and connection you’ve been longing for. 
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Rita is an Intuitive Counselor who works with bright sensitive people who are sick of struggling in their relationships and want to make the pain go away. Though her in-person and online intimate healing retreats and one-on-one sessions, she has helped thousands of people quiet the noise, move forward, and make peace with their past and their present, so that they can heal, be happier, and live a life they love.

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