Because of Amy

The way you describe your experiences, with such detail and raw honesty, draws in the reader, including me, so profoundly that it feels as if we are walking beside you, feeling every triumph and every trial. Your book weaves an incredible narrative arc—moving from moments of pain and struggle to breakthroughs, triumphs, and ultimately fulfillment. This journey is universally resonant; almost everyone will see pieces of their own life reflected in your story, which is precisely what makes your book so impactful and valuable.

To evolve is not a journey of ease; it is a road that demands courage, perseverance, and an unrelenting focus. Many are tempted to turn to distractions or take paths of lesser resistance. But, as your life so powerfully demonstrates, achieving profound personal and spiritual evolution requires a deep and unwavering drive to confront and transcend every obstacle. Your story is living proof that such dedication is not only possible but transformative.

I’ve known Rita for a number of years and I knew her story and how Amy had died in her arms. The part that I never quite understood was how it broke her heart open until I read the first draft of this book a year and a half ago. It truly did break her heart wide open and in it’s own way, my heart opened too as a I read the gut wrenching and heart warming story of Rita’s healing journey. This book will change your life if you’re willing to allow your heart to open a bit more with each word. Thank You Rita and Many Blessings on your continued journey of healing and transformation!

I was, I confess, not much looking forward to reading the book… I’d heard almost all these stories multiple times, over the course of any number of years. There wasn’t going to be a whole lot in here that I found “fresh”, or, at least, that’s what I thought, going in.

The book kicks ass. K I C K S A S S

Wow. The storytelling makes the stories fresh, and compelling. It is, surprisingly, a page-turner; I didn’t really want to stop reading it, (Though it also did make me want to stop, because much of it is intense, and given my sympathy for the narrator, it was often uncomfortable.)

The book is deeply moving, compelling, and involving. It’s told in an intimate voice with raw, unvarnished, emotions. I’m dying to see how it lands with people who aren’t familiar with Rita and Julia. (It landed like a gut punch, with me.) The ending is pitch perfect.

I don’t cry much (though mom-life has changed that a bit). Mostly, I’ve lived a life of not touching feelings. I’ve worked for years to unlearn that, BUT…

This book had me touching a lot of feelings and crying. (Like sobbing that I love my daughter so much and that our parents are going to die some day at the same time). It taught me how to keep working on having my own back—and not blaming others when I don’t.

Thank you for doing your work because it’s a gift to me, to my husband, and to our daughter. I’m in awe and proud of you for being so vulnerable.